My informant SS is a 20-year-old girl of Jewish descent. She is very passionate about dance and participated on a dance team all throughout high school. In this piece, she describes a common saying to me (AK) that her dance coach attempted to instill in the minds of each girl on the team.
SS: From dance team we had the saying of: “Early is on time and on time is late.”
AK: So does this just mean you always had to be early?
SS: Kind of. At first it was annoying, but I got used to it pretty quickly.
AK: Does it have any significance to you or does it still apply to your life today?
SS: Definitely. It really sticks with me now. It’s a good life skill and saying I guess.
I found this proverb to be quite applicable to pretty much every facet of life. For me, this proverb is most applicable to things from my everyday life. For important events like interviews and tests, it is very easy to find the motivation to be on time because a lot is dependent on the event itself. However, for things like class and other day to day tasks, it is way harder to have the motivation to always be on time. For this reason, I try to abide by this proverb. It is certainly very difficult, but just the mindset of needing to be early allows me to show up on time. In a way, I still am “late”, but just this shift in mindset allows me to be traditionally “on time”.