Residence: New Delhi
Date of Performance/Collection: April 26, 2017
Primary Language: Hindi (urdu)
Other Language(s): English
“So, In India, there’s this common ritual for married couples. So, one day of the year, they fast in honor of their significant other so the gods bless them. My parents did it until they were in their 40’s but then they just gave up on it. For the most orthodox families they do it even if their ill and need to eat, but since my family isn’t like that it’s not that serious. And it’s on a specific day of the year, but I don’t remember which one.”
I find it interesting that different families take this custom to different degrees of seriousness. It’s a very clear and straightforward ritual, that if you fast you will be blessed by the gods, but still some families take it more seriously than others. It makes me wonder what percent of families take it seriously compared to the percent that don’t, and if there are any other factors that might help indicate which families will take it seriously and which won’t.