Folklore: Indian wedding prank
Then after that, the boy enters the temple. Where the ceremony takes place is very sacred. While the boy is waiting there for the bride, his shoes are there outside. After the ceremony he can take his shoes and the girl to his house. Its the girls familys responsibility to take the grooms shoes for money. Because he cant go outside without his shoes, its a tradition every wedding. The brides sister or any relative would take the boys shoes and hide them for the entire ceremony and at the very end would ask for money. The brides family obviously doesnt want her to go. I got $500!
We love to party. In India, its whatever happens to be comfortable. People will take off a week from work for the wedding. But we pulled it off in three events: the cocktail party, a henna party, and a very intimate family party for religious reasons. Thats when a guru would come to the house and set up a temple for private prayer. At that point in time, the girls family would bond again, wish good luck to the girl. My sister was sitting down and all the female members would hold a cloth over her and put one piece of jewelry on the cloth, which has our best fortunes and wishes for the future to bless her. Then shed be spiritually ready for the wedding.
Theres a rule that you cant wear anything old, basically a lot of shopping, brand new dresses/jewelry. Its about first impressions. To Indians, its always about the one-up, showing how wealthy you are and the grandiose of the event. This is a way for us to have a really big family reunion. My sister got married last fall.
This is a classic wedding prank in Indian culture. Feet are often seen to be sexual symbols, and to have the groom frantically look for the shoes exemplifies this idea. It also shows how playful the weddings are, and is a way for the brides family to think of clever or cunning ways to hide the shoes. It also has a feeling of nostalgia. Obviously, the brides family does not want their daughter to leave, so if the groom can never find his shoes, then they can perhaps keep her forever.