Occupation: Hotel Owner/Manager
Residence: Nashville, TN
Date of Performance/Collection: 3/20/2013
Primary Language: English
“If you want to have a wedding at night in Nashville, you have to wear a tuxedo.”
The informant was told this from his mother and father in law. The reason that they gave him was that that’s just what you do. The informant is from New York, and he wanted to wear a Giorgio Armani suit for the wedding. “I didn’t want to wear a tuxedo.” His in-laws told him that if he wanted to wear the suit that he could have the wedding on a Sunday afternoon because at night weddings, he had to wear a tuxedo.
The informant ended up getting married on Sunday night so he had to wear a tuxedo. He told the story with a bit of resentment under his voice, and he ended saying that “it doesn’t apply anymore, but it did apparently, according to them.”
This tradition of wearing a tuxedo stuck with him because he hadn’t been allowed to do what he wanted to because of previously existing tradition. Because he was joining a new family, he had to go along with their traditions instead of doing what he had wanted, and he still holds on to a tiny grudge for it. The folkloric ritual held strong on this occasion.