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Folk Recipe/Meal

Folk Recipe/Meal- Swedish Meatballs

My mom or my aunt cooks the dish, always reading off this torn apart little index card. My whole family, on my mom’s side, comes if we’re lucky.  This also includes two aunts and uncles as well as my sister, brother in law, niece, and nephew. It’s cooked every year for Christmas, and for special occasions, but Christmas is the big one. It’s cooked because that is what my grandma did for my mom and uncles, and I suppose is what her mother and my father’s parents did. The meal is delicious; it’s always cooked right and reminds me of the past as well as connects me to my family.  It’s really special.  There is one main special ingredient: criagpepper that has to be imported from Sweden and you have to smash the small balls into little pieces by putting it inside of a brown bag.  The bag must be brown and we roll this pepper with a rolling pin until it is fine.  It is a long process, but it is definitely worth it.

This meal of Swedish Meatball along with its’ preparation has a special meaning to Catherine.  She said she loves how it brings the family together each year.  She also stated that her grandmother really stresses the importance of being Swedish.  She isn’t so sure why her grandmother is so meticulous about following the exact same steps each year, but she thinks it is just tradition and habit.  Catherine also told me that this is her favorite meal in the world.  Supposedly, nothing is better than these meatballs.  She even said, “Matt, I am telling you, these are the best things you will ever have.  You need to try them”.

I think Catherine’s grandmother prepares this meal thinking more about family than food.  I believe she wants family to come together each year and remember their Swedish roots.  The fact that they still import this pepper from Sweden makes the meal “authentic” and connects Catherine with her original heritage.  This meal gives the family a sense of identity and togetherness that they normally do not feel.

The last thing to note is when this meal is prepared.  Catherine said her family only makes it on Christmas and rare special occasions.  This tells you the importance of the dish.  Even though it is Catherine’s favorite meal, her grandmother refuses to make it unless the occasion deserves it.  This makes the meatballs even more special.  Catherine told me that she would want them everyday, but I think she will realize as she grows older that her grandmother has a method to her madness.

Folk Superstition – Morocco

Folk Superstition- The Evil Eye

When I was home for spring break, my mother was wearing this red string around her left wrist.  At the time I didn’t pay it much attention, but when I told her about my folklore collection, she told me something about it that I could not leave out of the collection. Wearing a red string around your left wrist prevents bad luck and doesn’t allow the evil eye to interfere with you.  I was not totally sure what she meant by the evil eye, so the questioning began.

I asked her more about the evil eye and where she learned the story.  She said she learned about it on her trip to Morocco.  Supposedly, the evil eye dates back to around 3000 BC.  My mother said wearing the red string around your left wrist is an old Moroccan tradition passed down from medieval times.  She said this was told to her on biking trip there in one of the town’s.  She can’t remember if a local or a tour guide told it, but nevertheless, she bought some type of evil eye souvenir and this red string.  When   I asked her why she wore it and what she thought of the superstition, she said, “I don’t really know if I believe it necessarily, but it is very unique and it brings back a lot of memories from the trip”.

When analyzing this, it is tough to generalize why others wear this string on their left wrist, but I think I know why my mother does.  Every time she looks down and sees this string, it reminds her of the trip.  This instantly connects her with Morocco and the wonderful times she had there.  This also connects her with the Moroccan culture.  It is something that most Americans don’t know about or have, so this changes her sense of identity in some respects.

Another interesting thing to notice is who told her the story of the evil eye.  If it was indeed a local, this could have been simply to tell an old Moroccan belief.  But I also believe it might have something to do with all the evil eye souvenirs.  Tourists who buy these Moroccan items help their business tremendously.  Whether the evil eye “exists” or not, selling things connected with it is a moneymaker in Morocco.

This can also be found in the following:

Evil Eye

Mark P. Taylor

Folklore, Vol. 44, No. 3 (Sep., 1933), pp. 308-309

Published by: Taylor & Francis, Ltd. on behalf of Folklore Enterprises, Ltd.

Folk Superstition – Jewish

Folk Superstition- The Blue Ribbon

When I was born, I came out three and a half months premature.  I almost died and had to stay in the hospital for three months following birth.  Because of this, I think my mom was always trying to find things that would bring me good luck.  When I was out of the hospital and taken home, my mom had a blue ribbon attached to my baby bed.  Of course I don’t remember seeing it then, but my mom kept it with her for quite some time.  She showed me it recently and said that putting a blue ribbon on a baby’s bed prevents bad luck from falling upon the baby.

My great grandfather, who is from Eastern Europe, told this story to her.  Supposedly he was very into superstitions and practiced them frequently.  My mother said this is only used on a baby’s bed, and shouldn’t be used otherwise.  I am not sure of the reasoning, but I have a good guess.

In most cultures, babies are seen as completely pure and innocent.  By the time a baby grows, innocence is already escaping them.  This blue ribbon that can only be placed on a baby’s bed might be done so for this reason.  It will protect them from bad luck during their first few months of life, so they will be lucky forever.

Another thing I found interesting was the color of the ribbon.  Since my family is Jewish, blue is seen as a color of beauty.  Supposedly, it is the color of God’s Glory.  It is a strange coincidence that blue was the color chosen.  I believe this superstition also helped my mom connect with her grandfather.  In a way, it allowed me to do the same.  Also, it probably connected my mom with her Eastern European heritage.  My mother tells people the ribbon was the reason for no complications after I left the hospital, but I think she just likes the story.

Family Story

The Family and Their Rings

Well, there is this story in my family. I am not totally sure if it is true, but I hear it from cousins and other relatives all the time.  Supposedly, my family, a couple generations ago, were all bankers.  They all decided to make this crest to symbolize both their family and profession.  Along with this crest, they made a bunch of gold rings.  This all sounds normal, but supposedly, these rings give you power and strength if you are in the family.  But if you aren’t, they have some type of curse attached to them.  From what I have heard, our family has a couple of them still, but I hear some are lost.  I do not really know what it all means, but I don’t want people to be cursed.

I heard this story from my friend Barnabas.  He is Italian and English, but he did not specify which side of the family this came from.  He said this story is normally told at family functions or events.  I asked him his opinion about the accuracy of this story and he said, “ I mean I don’t really know.  I have never seen one of these rings personally, but supposedly my cousin has.  I just don’t want someone to be cursed because it could ruin his or her life. I would like a ring though, would maybe help my strength”.

This story is very interesting because it is told within his family.  It creates a sense of identity because those in the family are the only ones who know it.  He said it is never just told randomly around family, but only at functions and important get togethers.  This tells me it has special importance within the family.  I think it also is meant to bring back memories of past generations.

The last thing I noticed was that the rings were made of gold.  Gold is a symbol of wealth, power, and strength.  I don’t know anyone who wouldn’t want their family to be associated with such qualities.  The fact that these rings are magical also gives the family a sense of importance.

Ghost Story – San Antonio, Texas

Ghost Story- The Donkey Lady

Well, this is really creepy, but uh, ok.  So back in San Antonio, there was this lady who had three donkeys.  She was a nice lady, I heard, and never really bothered anyone.  Her donkeys were really loud though.  One day her neighbor got pissed at her about the noise the donkeys were making.  The next day, she took her donkeys to the river. When she parked the truck, she realized her neighbor was behind her blinking his lights.  He got out and torched her car on fire with her and the donkeys trapped inside.  Uh, so, they were all burned to death, but supposedly, the ladies face burned in a way that looked like a donkey.  Now, especially on Halloween, if you blink your lights at anyone, the ghost of the Donkey Lady will get in your car and kill you.

I collected this story from my roommate Andy.  He told me Donkey Lady is very popular in San Antonio and he thought it was real when he first heard it as a youngster.  It was told to him by a friend around Halloween time.  I asked him what he thought of it now and he said, “ I think it’s a pretty clever story, but uh, I don’t know, I definitely don’t think it’s true.  I mean who would own three donkeys.  That’s kind of ridiculous.  It is funny though that people sometimes don’t even turn their car lights on Halloween anymore.  It has gotten a little bit out of hand”.

This story was tough to analyze.  At first, I thought Donkey Lady was only performed for entertainment because it is such a random story.  Then I noticed two more things.  Andy said people are afraid to turn on their lights during Halloween because of this story.  Halloween is a night that’s meant to be dark, so this story acts as an advocate to that concept.  Also, this story serves a reminder that you are a San Antonian.  I have never heard Donkey Lady before, so it makes the people of San Antonio have a sense of pride and identity.

This can also be found in the following:

San Antonio Express News. October 25, 2006.  Donkey Lady Travels Around Area.

McCollough, Chuck.