Text: Patience is a Virtue.

Context: Informant first heard this proverb, from word of mouth, when they moved to college. Informant, however, does acknowledged hearing some rendition of this proverb from films before hearing it from their mother. Informant was on the phone with their mother complaining about the dynamics of dating in college. When emphasizing their desire to find “the one”, the informant’s mother responded with this proverb. Because this is a commonly discussed topic for the informant and their mother, this phrase is heard at least once a month. Thought the informant finds it annoying, they acknowledge the truth and underlying wisdom of the proverb. They are also aware that their mother has their best intentions in mind, so they recognize the importance of the phrase.

Analysis: Upon having this conversation, I immediately began to consider why the informant described being slightly annoyed by the repetition of this proverb. I, too, agree that it becomes slightly annoying to hear. I think this is likely associated with Gen Z’s desire for instant satisfaction. In almost all aspects of life, such as wealth, romance, and health, Generation Z seeks out the quickest way to achieve results. This proverb dives into the truths of hard work that are so closely tied to older generations. The differences between the ideals and philosophies of these generations is what causes some irritation when hearing this proverb. I believe the ease of access to everything, via the internet, and the instant satisfaction that is provided by this ease, is key to understanding the generational differences in acceptance of this proverb. I am curious to see if aging will revert Gen Z’s beliefs on this proverb, or if technological advancements will continue to widen the gap.