Here is a proverb my friend provided on keeping a normal heart. She learned it from her political teacher in her middle school.
Proverb:
The followings are Original script, Phonetic script, Transliteration, and Full translation in order.
水 能 载 舟, 亦 能 覆 舟。
Shui neng zai zhou, yi neng fu zhou.
Water can float boat, also can capsize boat.
Water can float the boat, but also can capsize the boat.
Thoughts:
This proverb was originally a warning the famous philosopher Xunzi gave to a King. He used the water as metaphor of the people and the boat of King’s authority. It is later used to describe that everything has a positive side and a negative side, so one must handle things carefully.
This proverb shows how the proverb can originally targeting one specific event, but later is re-comprehended and now can have a more general meaning.