Text:

“Don’t be sad that it’s over, be glad that it happened”.

Context:

The informant’s mother would say it when she was upset or sad when something was over; this reminded her to stay present in the moment. The informant states that this quote helps acknowledge that nostalgia is a gift in our lives.

Analysis:

From my perspective I see this proverb similarly. Although one may focus on the past it’s important to take a step forward and focus on the present and what’s to come in the future, as you can’t always live in the past. You may cherish the past but also remember to enjoy the present. This reminds me of “friend of a friend” as this was a belief that the informant learned from their mother and now uses it in their life.