CL: “Me and my family are very Polish. Though, despite that, we don’t really have many time-long Polish traditions that usually correlate with it. We don’t speak any Polish other than certain phrases, um, for certain occasions. Though one thing that we have done for the majority of my life is that around Christmas, um, in a pseudo-religious fashion, sort of an extension of Thanksgiving, to share thanks with our family members, and with those close around us we would break this sort of, like, wafer called opłatek, um, and give it to another family member that then you both would basically trade pieces. You would eat them, and then you would say something thankful about the other person. And, like, we’ve done that for the majority of my life, and, yeah, it’s just always been, like, a very time-honored thing.
Interviewer: Is that a rite of passage for your family?
CL: “It’s more so like a… It’s sort of just like a sort of favor or other thing to perpetuate tradition in that sense. So, it’s a, like, recurring ritual in that sense.”
Interviewer: “Do you know any other people who do that? Is that, like, a long-standing, family tradition?”
CL: “I know it was initially on my mother’s side. My entire mother’s family line has done this. As long as I have known. And, yeah, we’ve just been continuing to do it as I’ve grown up. It’s been a little bit harder to do it now, just because it’s actually harder to get. the wafers, but it’s still nice to always say things and sort of reiterate this symbolization of it around that time.”
Context: When discussing traditions in class, CL and I came around their family tradition of breaking opłatek around the holidays. It symbolizes thanks when given to a family member or loved one after being broken. It is a positive way to stay close to CL’s Polish roots and be connected to their culture.
Analysis: This tradition is a good example of how cultural practices can stay meaningful even when other parts of that identity aren’t as prominent in someone’s life. Still practicing and being a part of the culture, even if it is not your immediate culture, but your family’s line. The use of opłatek shows a direct connection to Polish heritage, even though CL’s family doesn’t speak much Polish or follow many other traditions. Breaking and sharing the wafer, along with saying something thankful, turns the moment into more than just a holiday activity; it becomes a way to express appreciation. The fact that it has been passed down through the mother’s side of the family also shows how traditions continue through generations, even if they become harder to maintain (like accessing the wafers). Overall, it highlights how traditions don’t have to be strictly religious or widely practiced to matter, but they can be simple and serve as a great way to help people feel connected to their family and cultural background.
