Author Archives: Emily Wittkowske

Nim

Age: 46
Occupation: Teacher
Residence: Tracy
Primary Language: English

While trying to find interesting ways to get her students interested in math my mom consulted many different resources.  After searching for a while she remembered a game that one of her math professors taught her. The game is called Nim. She taught it to me when we were waiting for our food at a restaurant. I was becoming impatient, as most seven year olds do when waiting a long time for food. She said “okay, okay, okay…. I have something for you to do.” She grabbed her purse, pulled out her wallet, and began pulling out some coins. She began to explain, “I am going to teach you a game. You can play it with just about any small object. Since we have coins we are going to play the game with those.” She began placing the coins on the table into three rows. One row had three coins. The row right below it had four coins. The last row had eleven coins. She proceeded to explain how to play the game. “Each player takes turns removing coins from one row. You can remove as many coins as you want as long as they are all in the same row. For example, on your first turn you can remove all of the coins from the first row. Then I could remove all of the coins from the second row. The goal of the game is to be the person to take the last coin. Some versions of the game say that you don’t want to be the person to take the last coin, but we will play this way.” We then began to play a few games and I lost all of them. It is not enough to just know the rules of the game. You also need a strategy. My mom has played the game many times and has learned from other players. As a result she had developed a decent strategy while I had to develop my own as we played. My mom has a degree in biochemistry and a Master’s degree in educations. She teaches math to high schoolers. She enjoys doing math puzzles and learning to code. As a result, she has collected an enormous amount of folklore. Predominantly from her students. Some of this folklore is unique to each niche while other pieces span multiple groups. This provides a unique perspective on folklore from these rather similar groups. I found the game very interesting and continue to play it today. Similar games are brought up in my classes and we have to develop algorithms to play the game such that you can always win. Both my mom and I enjoy the strategy that goes into this game. Every now and then I challenge her to a match to see if I can beat her yet.

For another version of the game checkout this online edition at http://education.jlab.org/nim/.

Driving Superstition

Age: 18
Residence: Tracy
Primary Language: English

My sister always lifts her feet up in the car when we drive over a bridge and when we go through a tunnel she holds her breath. When I asked her why she did this she responded “so that we make it through safely. If I don’t then the bridge could break and we would fall in the water or the tunnel will collapse on top of us.” Her reasons are fairly common. Many natural disasters are reported on television and many action movies show bridges being destroyed and tunnels being crushed. Many people have a fear of driving over bridges or through tunnels.  I asked her where she learned this superstition from and she responded with “I think I just picked it up. Some of my friends do it when I ride with them. I think mom or grandma may have told me to do it at one point.” As soon as she said this I remembered my mom joking one time about holding my breath while going through a tunnel. My sister is a political science and economics major. She plays water polo and is a member of many “fandoms”. A “fandom” is a group of people who follow, generally, a television show or a novel. Some of the fandoms that she belongs to follow shows such as Supernatural, Doctor Who, and Naval Criminal Investigative Service(NCIS). The group develops terminology that is only understood by other members of the group. For example, many fandoms “ship” certain characters. This means that the members of the fandom or just fans of the show want two characters to become a couple.

Personally, I find driving superstitions to be rather pointless. I think that “lucky” or “good” driving is a matter of ability and how much one is paying attention. If someone chooses to cut you off or hits your car it happens. I have never personally experience a superstition “working” and as a result I don’t believe that they are particularly helpful. At the same time, I don’t mind if my sister wants to partake in the superstition if it makes her feel better.

Unassigned but assigned Spot belief

Age: 18
Residence: Tracy
Primary Language: English

While home for spring break, my sister took the test to obtain her driver’s license. My mom reminded her to pick up her parking pass when she goes back to school. I asked her if she knew where she was going to park. She told me “well I have to find a spot that isn’t already taken. Ya know because everyone who already has a parking pass has claimed their spot. I hope I can find one close to the front so that I don’t have to walk super far every day.” I found this to be an interesting conundrum. While the parking spaces aren’t officially assigned people usually park in the same one every day. That happened at my high school. A similar phenomenon occurs with seats in college lecture halls. Most of my friends including myself often get to class early the first few weeks to stake out our seats. Then we continue to sit in the same seats all semester. It’s really annoying when someone takes your unofficially assigned seat. My sister had this problem with the parking spot. I find it interesting that we as humans have a hard time functioning when we lose our favorite seat or parking spot. My sister says she would hate it if someone took her spot and tries not to take someone else’s spot. I have the same problem. It really ruins my day when someone takes my usual seat in class. I believe that many people like consistency. So when something interferes with our consistent behavior it makes us uncomfortable. I believe that doing something in a particular or familiar spot evokes a sense of familiarity, even if you aren’t where you normally are like if you are on vacation. When my family goes on vacation the bathroom always gets ‘set-up’ the same way. My parents take the left side of the sink for their personal items while my sister and I take the right side of the sink. These actions seek to bring back that sense of familiarity when we are in a new place or situation.

My sister is a political science and economics major. She plays water polo and is a member of many “fandoms”. A “fandom” is a group of people who follow, generally, a television show or a novel. Some of the fandoms that she belongs to follow shows such as Supernatural, Doctor Who, and Naval Criminal Investigative Service(NCIS). The group develops terminology that is only understood by other members of the group. For example, many fandoms “ship” certain characters. This means that the members of the fandom or just fans of the show want two characters to become a couple.

Sister Day Tradition

Age: 18
Occupation: Student
Residence: Tracy
Primary Language: English

Sister day is a holiday passed down in my family. It is a day that celebrates having sisters. Today my sisters and I and my mom and her sisters participate in the event. The day consists of the sisters spending the entire day together and exchanging small gifts. This day celebrates the special bond that sisters have. My mom and her sisters used to go on a hike or camping trip for sister day. My sister and I used to go to amusement parks. Then we got our puppy, Bliss. Now she joins in the event since she is a sister. So now we go to parks or lakes so that Bliss can really enjoy the day with us. My mom thinks this tradition came from a mixture of Irish traditions, but other than that she is not sure of the origin of this tradition. I asked my mom what she thought of the tradition. She said, “I think that this really brought my sisters and I together. It really made us value each other. Having support from your sisters is invaluable. I love having their support when things don’t go as planned. They really help you out with things that parents can’t.” When I asked my sister the same question she said, “I love hanging out with you. We don’t always get along but I still love you. This tradition lets us put our differences aside and remember that we love each other above all else.” My sister is a political science and economics major. She plays water polo and is a member of many “fandoms”. A “fandom” is a group of people who follow, generally, a television show or a novel. Some of the fandoms that she belongs to follow shows such as Supernatural, Doctor Who, and Naval Criminal Investigative Service(NCIS). The group develops terminology that is only understood by other members of the group. For example, many fandoms “ship” certain characters. This means that the members of the fandom or just fans of the show want two characters to become a couple. My mom has a degree in biochemistry and a Master’s degree in education. She teaches math to high schoolers. She enjoys doing math puzzles and learning to code. As a result, she has collected an enormous amount of folklore. Predominantly from her students. Some of this folklore is unique to each niche while other pieces span multiple groups. This provides a unique perspective on folklore from these rather similar groups.

I love this tradition. It’s always fun and I love spending time with my sister. It is especially important to me now that I am away at college and I don’t get to see her as often as I want to. Many families today do not get along. We see it in television and music very often. Divorce rates are higher today than they have been in the past. Thus, I believe that having a day to celebrate with part of your family is really important.

Sneeze belief

Nationality: Irish
Age: 19
Residence: Los Angeles
Primary Language: English

While hanging out with a few of my friends, procrastinating on homework, one of my friends, Sara, needed to sneeze. She had one of those sneezes that don’t happen right away. My other friend Henry told her, “Look into the sun, well not directly ya know like look into the light it will help you sneeze. Yupp yeah like that.” Then Sara was able to sneeze. Both Sara and I thought the trick was really weird. I have heard that you are supposed to say “watermelon”, wave your hand in front of your face, or jump up and down in order to avoid sneezing. According to Henry, the “looking into the sun” trick is of Irish decent. He learned it from various family members over the years. After Sara sneezed we said “bless you” as everyone usually does. Sara added, “do you guys know why we say ‘bless you’ when people sneeze? It’s like a Christian thing that when you sneeze it’s like the devil is leaving your body and at this point your soul is vulnerable, so people say ‘bless you’ to protect your soul during this time.” My friend, Sara, is a computer science major with a game development emphasis. As part of the computer science community she collects and forwards a myriad of folklore specific to this unique group. Computer science folklore is unique and reflects the beliefs and the culture of the group. Per my informant, as well as personal experience, computer science majors have a unique sense of humor that develops from the difficult coursework, the long hours spent on the computer coding, and the group dynamic required to get through the major. This humor is often expressed through memes and jokes only members of this group can understand and appreciate. My friend, Henry, is also a computer science major. As part of the computer science community he collects and forwards a myriad of folklore specific to this unique group. Computer science folklore is unique and reflects the beliefs and the culture of the group. Per my informant, as well as personal experience, computer science majors have a unique sense of humor that develops from the difficult coursework, the long hours spent on the computer coding, and the group dynamic required to get through the major. This humor is often expressed through memes and jokes only members of this group can understand and appreciate. I found both of these interpretations on sneezing to be interesting. The first one helps you sneeze since the period of time right before a sneeze is rather uncomfortable. I was curious to see how well Henry’s trick of looking into light worked. I took it upon myself to experiment. I noticed that Henry’s trick doesn’t work all of the time. Nor do the other trick mentioned. However, I did notice that all of the tricks succeed in distracting you from the uncomfortable feeling right before sneezing. That might just be the real secret behind this folklore. Maybe the point is not to bring about or avoid a sneeze but rather to distract from the uncomfortable feeling right beforehand. While Sara’s piece of folklore attempts to explain why you sneeze. Here you can clearly see the difference between how people view this biological reaction.