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Festival: Christmas

Date of Performance: 04/30/2025

Nationality: American

Primary Language: English

Residence: Los Angeles, California

My informant describes the importance of his family’s Christmas celebration every year growing up. He notes that it isn’t necessarily unique, but that his parents made it a point of emphasis in his childhood, and that to this day he fondly remembers the effort they put into making it special for him and his brother. He also notes that while was raised culturally Catholic, he is not particularly religious, and regards the holiday as having more of a personal than spiritual significance in his eyes. His family tradition went as such: every year, they would decorate the tree together on the first of December. His father took care to always buy a real, fresh, pine tree, because he enjoyed the smell of it throughout their house. The biggest day of the Christmas holiday, he describes, was the night before Christmas, when his cousins, who only visited about once a year, would come over with his uncle and aunt, and his parents would cook a large dinner. This was followed by a screening of A Charlie Brown Christmas, after which they were all allowed to open one present before going to bed. The next morning, they would find the milk and cookies they’d left out eaten, and their stockings stuffed with one or two items from their Christmas list. After this, they’d eat the leftovers of the night before, and watch Christmas movies with their parents and family. 

My informant describes this practice with much enthusiasm – I could tell he really enjoyed reminiscing about his childhood. He notes that his parents’ treatment of the Christmas holiday was likely due to his father, who grew up as the child of immigrants, always envying the “classic” Christmas experience he peers had. 

On another note, my informants’ perception of Christmas as less of a religious event and more of a family celebration  is pretty similar to the experience of my other friends. Regardless of if they were raised religious or not, many describe the winter holidays with similar fondness, likely because of globalization and the cultural prominence of the “classic” Christmas holiday. Interestingly, this practice is less community based as it is familial, perhaps reflecting the dominance of the nuclear-family model amongst Western countries and cultures.

中秋节 (Zhōngqiū Jié) Mid Autumn Festival

autumn moon festival

Title: 中秋节 (Zhōngqiū Jié / Mid-Autumn Festival)

AGE: 54
Date_of_performance: May 1, 2025
Language: Mandarin Chinese
Nationality: Canadian
Occupation: Retail worker and teacher
Primary Language: English
Residence: Toronto, Canada (formerly lived in Beijing, China for 20 years)

Folklore Explanation:
“When we lived in Beijing, we always made a point to celebrate Mid-Autumn Festival. It’s such a beautiful time of year—the air would start to cool, and you’d see mooncakes everywhere, all wrapped in ornate boxes. We’d pick some up, usually with lotus seed or red bean filling, and head to one of the parks in the evening. The full moon that night always felt enormous, almost too perfect to be real.

We’d find a quiet spot, usually one of those pagodas near a pond or on a hill, and set up a little picnic. Tea, fruit, mooncakes. It was never fancy, but it felt meaningful—just sitting together and watching the moon. Around us, you’d sometimes see other families doing the same, or even lighting lanterns, but we usually kept it simple. It wasn’t about tradition in the strict sense, more about soaking in the atmosphere. It was one of those nights where everything felt calm and reflective, like the city was collectively exhaling.”

Analysis
The Mid-Autumn Festival is a calendar-based seasonal ritual, rooted in harvest celebration and lunar worship. It falls on the 15th day of the 8th lunar month and centers on themes of family reunion, cosmic harmony, and abundance. The legend of Chang’e, the moon goddess, is the mythological centerpiece, making this a form of mythical and narrative folklore. Its practices—moon-gazing, eating mooncakes, lighting lanterns—are considered participatory folklore, passed down through domestic traditions, community gatherings, and increasingly, commercial influence. While originally tied to agricultural cycles and Taoist cosmology, the festival today blends spiritual symbolism with secular celebration. In urban areas like Beijing, participation often includes public space rituals, shared meals, and aesthetic appreciation of the moon—bridging the traditional and the contemporary.

清明节 (Qīngmíng Jié) Tomb Sweeping Day

Title: 清明节 (Qīngmíng Jié)

AGE: 55
Date_of_performance: April 4, 2025
Language: Mandarin Chinese
Nationality: United States (lived in china for 20 years)
Occupation: Employee of the British Council in China
Primary Language: English
Residence: Beijing, China, currently Toronto, Canada

Folklore Explanation:
“Qingming is a public holiday, so everything slows down for the day. You probably remember—we’d get the day off, and if we stayed in the city, you’d notice how quiet it felt in the morning. Most families would head out early to visit the graves of their relatives. You’d see them cleaning the tombstones, pulling weeds, and laying out offerings—usually food, flowers, or incense. Some people burned paper items, like imitation money or little paper houses, as offerings to the ancestors.

But it wasn’t just a solemn day. After the rituals, families would often go on long walks together—some even make a trip of it. A lot of people leave the city and go into the surrounding countryside or small towns where the holiday is more deeply rooted. You could see whole groups picnicking, flying kites, or gathering for a big meal. It’s a day about remembrance, but also about being together as a family. The weather’s usually mild by then, and it kind of marks the real start of spring.”

Analysis:

Qingming Festival is a form of calendar custom and ritual folklore, rooted in ancestral worship practices common in Chinese folk religion, Confucian values, and Taoist and Buddhist influences. It is an example of commemorative folklore, observed at a fixed point in the solar calendar (around April 4–6). The festival’s customs—tomb-sweeping, food offerings, and symbolic paper burning—are passed down intergenerationally, typically through oral tradition and communal practice, rather than through formal education. While deeply spiritual, Qingming is not tied to a single organized religion but reflects a broader cultural reverence for lineage, harmony with nature, and seasonal change. It continues to be transmitted through family practices, media portrayals, school education, and public rituals, maintaining a strong presence in both rural and urban areas of China.

Pagpag – Filipino Funeral Custom

Nationality: Filipino
Age: 51
Occupation: IT Help Desk
Residence: Naperville, IL
Language: Tagalog

Text:

“Pagpag” in Tagalog translates to “Dust off”

“If you go to a wake/funeral, you shouldn’t go straight home. You have to go and stop by somewhere else – for example a coffee shop, mall, or restaurant.”

Context:

The performer didn’t experience this tradition until his Lolo died, and it he never really questioned it, because it was common for his Filipino relatives to eat after any gathering. It was something the people he grew up with just understood. He grew up in the Philippines (rural Luzon) until he was 8, then moved to America where his family still followed this tradition.

“That way you wouldn’t bring death to the household. If there is a ghost that latches on from the funeral home or just death in general, you don’t want it to follow you home. You don’t just go to a place and drive by, you have to stop and spend some time there.” “In the Philippines, there weren’t really places to go before going home. Now whenever we go to a funeral, we do Pag pag.”

Analysis:

Pagpag is rooted in spirital folk belief of liminality: the belief that events such as death and spiritally charged and potentially dangerous. By not going home right away, people seek to disrupt the path of wandering spirits and ensure their household won’t become haunted. This ties into Filipino animism and folk Catholicism which is a blend of indigenous spiritual beleifs and Catholic concepts of afterlife (brought over in the 1500s by Spanish colonizers).

Another great value of Filipinos is community. By avoiding going home right away, this practice also forces community through shared mourning and offers emotional decompression after an emotionally taxing event. Even if it’s not tied to superstition and the fear of vengeful spirits, societies tend to pact together after devastation just to cheer each other up as it’s human nature which has been passed down across generations.

Brasilian Traditional Food

Date of performance: 04/29/2025

Occupation: Student 

Primary Language: English 

Title-   Feijoada (Brazilian black bean stew) 

Context- M’s mom is from Brazil, so when asked about her favorite foods, M shares that a Brazilian staple in their household is feijoada, or black bean stew. M says, “The traditional foods you eat them whenever, but when there’s a celebration there will without a doubt be those foods, you know. They definitely do remind me of home!”

Analysis- M shares a favorite food of hers that represents a part of her home in Brazil. Traditional foods are a key part of folklore as they convey tradition, customs and identity throughout generations. These traditional foods, as M has experienced, can be generationally passed down through oral tradition. Folklore relies on oral transmission to expand and develop in different regions of the world, which can also be observed in traditional foods and cuisine.