Author Archives: Renee Simpson

Do not put money on the table when you eat

Nationality: African
Age: 22
Occupation: Student
Residence: Los Angeles
Performance Date: April
Primary Language: French
Language: English, Spanish, Fang, etc

After a day of shopping with my informant and friend, we went to a restaurant for dinner. Once I was done eating and she was finishing up her last bites I pulled out my wallet and placed it on the table.  She startled me by abruptly saying, “Don’t do that!” Confused, I picked up my wallet checking to see if I killed a bug or something. She then explained that it was a superstition in her country. Now a year later I reminded my informant (a twenty-two year old female from the Gabonese Republic, a state located on the west coast of Central Africa) of that specific event and she revealed that “In my country…you’re not supposed to pull out money or put it on the table until everyone is done eating…It’s okay to keep it down near the chair but not on the table.” When I asked why, my informant stated, “Because you will be broke [laughter].” When asked where she learned this from the informant claimed “everyone does it” meaning it is the custom among locals. She admitted not paying much attention to this belief as a child, however, once old enough to pay for her own meals she often forgot to not put money on the table. Days later, “I would be broke.”

As revealed by my informant wealth is a concern among the locals. “A lot of the beliefs in my country have to do with losing money. I think this superstition hints at a negative attitude towards poverty. I think by placing money on the table while people are consuming food it symbolizes consuming wealth.  Another thought is that exposing ones wallet leaves opportunity for others to think against someone’s wealth. Similar to the evil eye a negative thought may be a form of contagious magic.

Wicked

Nationality: American
Age: 22
Occupation: Student
Residence: Los Angeles
Performance Date: March
Primary Language: English
Language: Italian

My informant a twenty-two year old native in Massachusetts revealed that the word “wicked” is common vernacular among the citizens within the state. The term is synonymous with insane, awesome, or amazing. Massachusetts is notorious for the supernatural, hence Salem witch trials. This term is a way of keeping the history alive and making it socially acceptable. This seems similar to Borneo headhunters. Witchcraft is not generally seen in a positive light however this vernacular term put it in a positive light.

Freeze-tag

Nationality: American
Age: 9
Occupation: Student
Residence: Los Angeles
Performance Date: March
Primary Language: English

My third grade informant from McKinley Elementary described a game commonly played on the playground.

“Well freeze tag…it’s a game…it’s like tag but the tagger gets to freeze someone [the person who the tagger touches must stop moving] once their frozen someone else…who’s not frozen can unfreeze them and everyone has to run.”

This style of tag has survived many generations I can recall playing this myself in grade school. It serves as both exercise and amusement during recess and lunch.

Love whisperer

Nationality: African-American
Age: 9
Occupation: Student
Residence: Los Angeles
Performance Date: March
Primary Language: English
  1.  My informant a third grader at McKinley Elementary claimed to carry the title of the  “Love whisperer”

“Well the love whisperer is …so… who um… who loves who tells me and then I’m suppose to keep it a secret. [the whisper is also accompanied by a best man] Michael is the best man well I don’t really know what they do… for weddings and they um do the things where they read it and they say kiss the bride… um there’s two best men. This role was given to my informer by a classmate and was confirmed after several students approved of his title. Do girls and boys tell you who they like? Yes. When?  Mostly… um… at lunch. Do have maid of honor? No Flower girl? No

The third graders at McKinley seem to be reenacting marriage. What is interesting is that only men are given a title.

Jinx

Nationality: African-American
Age: 9
Occupation: Student
Residence: Los Angeles
Performance Date: March
Primary Language: English
  1. The third grader at  McKinley Elementary excitedly explained how to play jinx

 “Oh jinx! [clap] so when um two people say the same thing like for example all of us and they say it at the same time the person has to hurry up and say jinx before the other person. But there’s a roof above their head they have to say under roof jinx. Because if there is a roof and then you say jinx without the under roof cause your under a roof that means you jinx yourself. Can you talk? No you have to say there name five times. Anyone can say there name. Um in school what if they talk? You tell them they own like a soda or something.”