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“Stop being a cake!” Folk Speech

“Don’t be a cake!”

Nationality: American 

Age: 53

Occupation: Attorney

Residence: Boulder, CO

Collected Feb 27, 2025

Primary Language: English

Context:

“I don’t know the exact origin of this one in my life, but I think it was something I started as a dad. One of my main principles in raising you guys was making sure you could handle adversity, and so from a young age if I thought you could toughen your way through something, I’d often tell you to stop caking, or to stop being a cake. To be a “cake” was to be a weakling, and was a source of shame. Funny enough, you guys adopted it yourselves, calling each other “cakes” if you were perceived as being meek in the eyes of the other twin.”

Personal Analysis:

Growing up with this one, it was really funny to hear my dad mention it as folk speech in our family of four. I’ve admittedly never heard this used outside our little circle, but we would use this all the time growing up and still jokingly use it. My analysis is that it makes sense to use a plyable and relatively structurally weak item as a stand-in for when a person isn’t acting tough and use it as a nickname. This is in the same vein as now antiquated speech calling people “lilly-livered,” using a flower to demonstrate their weakness.

seasonal omen or a weather-related folk saying – “June Gloom”

Pulled from audio recording:

“Informant:
Okay, I’m from California. I wonder if you’ve heard of this one—“June gloom.”

Pearson:
No, what’s that?

Informant:
It’s a thing on the California coast where, in June, there’s this weird period of overcast skies in the middle of summer. It happens every year. Growing up, people would always say “June gloom,” especially when planning beach trips. Like, we’d want to go, but then someone would say, “Oh no, June gloom.””

Analysis:

“June Gloom” refers to June in California where the skies are overcast and a haze or a Gloom lingers over the coast. In my mind it can be used literally and figuratively. Literally because it’s a real weather-related phenomenon and figuratively as a sort of saying. Someone could ask you to go somewhere to do something with them and you could reply “oh no I don’t wanna go. June Gloom”. It’s used as a way to describe a state of being almost. It reminds me of the idea of not wanting to go outside because it’s raining if that makes sense.

Age: 20


Date_of_performance: Told to me on February 14, 2025. A thing they’ve heard throughout their life


Language: English


Nationality: American


Occupation: Student at USC


Primary Language: English


Residence: Somewhere in the Los Angeles area

Chinese proverb

“锲而舍之，朽木不折；锲而不舍，金石可镂。”

Translation – “If you stop carving, even rotten wood can’t be broken; never give up, and even metal and stone can be engraved.”

Encountered by informant – a Chinese speaker – innumerable times growing up, especially in regards to schoolwork.

This proverb is a frequent fixture of Chinese speakers’ conversation. It is often invoked in a similar manner to “where there’s a will, there’s a way,” highlighting the necessity of perseverance and persistent effort in various endeavors.

Generation X Slang Phrase

“Grody to the max.” – Slang phrase indicating that something is the grossest; the worst.

Informant unsure of when first encountered; could have potentially been picked up from a teen movie or TV program. In any case, it saw ubiquitous use by her young Gen X brethren.

A phrase full of 1980s mojo which like other phrases has sadly fallen out of frequent use – at least in full. To that point, a derivative of the phrase – “grody” – does still seem to get occasional mileage as a slang adjective from younger generations.

Lacrosse slang

“Yardsale” – slang term in lacrosse which refers to a stick check that knocks an opponent’s stick out of their hands.

First encountered by informant in childhood – taught to them by elder siblings who played lacrosse.

A yardsale will almost always result in a loose ball and high potential for a turnover. The event is noted for its aesthetic appeal – a yardsale sees the checked stick become airborne, often flipping vertically several times before coming back to earth. The stick’s air time, overall height acquired, and distance travelled can vary depending on the force and angle of the check. Some particularly ridiculous yardsales can see a stick go flying many, many feet into the air and/or traveling a great distance of the field before gravity intervenes.