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You wouldn’t punch a gift horse in the mouth.

Nationality: American
Age: 18
Occupation: Student
Residence: Poughkeepsie, NY
Language: English

Text: “You wouldn’t punch a gift horse in the mouth.”

Informant: “The first time I heard ‘You wouldn’t punch a gift horse in the mouth,’ I remember being told that wasn’t the saying, and I got confused because, well you wouldn’t punch a gift horse in the mouth. The people I was with agreed with that logic and ever since then it’s been my go-to proverb. I believe it represents a proverb’s ability to evolve into the modern age; for a meaning to stay timeless even as the context changes. It is this mentality that I try and take with me. No matter what I do, it’s important to stay timeless but real to myself. Even if my context changes, my meaning stays the same.” 

Interpretation: The informant’s misinterpretation of “Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth” into “You wouldn’t punch a gift horse in the mouth” highlights the nature of language and the way proverbs can evolve while maintaining their core meaning. Traditionally, the original saying advises against inspecting or questioning a gift, but the informant’s version changes the focus to a funnier, simpler truth—appreciation and respect for what is given. By applying this perspective to their own life, they express a desire to remain both timeless and authentic, suggesting that personal identity should be flexible in context but unwavering in essence. Their reflection on the proverb’s adaptability speaks to the nature of wisdom, emphasizing that while language and circumstances may change, fundamental values remain relevant. The reinterpretation of the proverb, rather than diminishing its meaning, reinforces the idea that wisdom is not just about rigid tradition but about finding truth in every era.

Give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime

Nationality: American
Age: 19
Occupation: Student
Residence: Los Angeles, CA
Language: English

Text: “Give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime”.

Informant: “A proverb that was introduced to me by a friend is ‘give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime. This saying was exhausted by my friend over a dozen times as he failed to teach me how to fish last summer. I associate this proverb with immense frustration and delusions of superiority and wisdom from my friend, as he too failed to catch a fish. I don’t even like fish like that. Salmon is good if prepared properly.”

Interpretation: This classic proverb highlights self-sufficiency and the long-term benefits of education over short-term aid. The informant’s humorous take on the phrase shows its challenges and its idealism, showing the frustration that can come with both teaching and learning. The experience suggests that knowledge alone is not enough, but execution plays a part as well. This perspective showcases the limitations of knowledge when it is isolated from success, exposing the bridge between theory and reality. A.B’s comment about not even liking fish also adds a layer of irony, questioning whether the skill being taught is even valuable to the learner, making it a playful critique of unwanted advice and misguided mentorship.

Six of one half, dozen of the other – Proverb

Nationality: American
Age: 51
Occupation: Middle School Teacher
Residence: Park Ridge, Il
Language: English

The proverb comes in two types: The correct one and the one that had been twisted.

The correct proverb goes “six of one, half dozen of the other”, but MK frequently misspoke and said “six of one half, dozen of the other” enough to where it became its own proverb.

This proverb means something along the lines of “it’s all the same regardless,” meaning whichever direction or choice one makes, the results will be the same. However, MK so often misspoke when trying to say this proverb that her version, “six of one half, dozen of the other,” became its own proverb accidentally. This new proverb would then seemingly mean that the choices presented to the speaker are no longer equal, and there is a correct choice that will provide more value. Despite this, the proverb is still taken as its correct variation where both choices are equal when used in practice.

This proverb could have taken on a new meaning, but rather than becoming its own proverb to counter its original, it instead became an inside joke between MK and her husband, becoming used intentionally wrong to call back to the frequent accidental mistakes that made it its own version in the first place. Because of this, it is only really used between MK and her husband. What makes this version of the proverb stick then is the added meaning behind the shared joke that makes the proverb take on a new primary meaning of love and connection between the couple, as it is a proverb that only they can truly appreciate. MK said about this proverb but their family in general is that it is built off of ridicule, making these jabs a sign of love and respect between the family as a whole. The familial tradition of poking fun at one another gives it the staying power to stand as a new proverb despite its literal context losing logical sense as a proverb trying to say all choices are equal.

More problems than Carter has pills – Proverb

Nationality: American
Age: 57
Occupation: High School Teacher
Residence: Park Ridge, Il
Language: English

The proverb from RK goes along these lines:

“_______ has more _______ than Carter has pills,” for example “That guy’s got more issues than Carter has pills.”

This proverb comes from RK’s father, who would use it pretty often back when RK was growing up. The proverb is used to describe a huge quantity, with knowledge of Carter’s enormous pill storage being deemed as common knowledge in the late ’70s and early ’80s. When asked why Carter had so many pills, RK said that he assumed it was about former president Jimmy Carter, who had a tumultuous term as president, dealing with many wide-scale issues. RK was young during his presidency, being the first one that he could remember, and he assumed that on top of the issues he was dealing with as president, an enormous drug addiction was part of them. However, recently, RK discovered that Carter’s Pills actually had nothing to do with Jimmy Carter and instead were about Carter’s Little Liver Pills, with people seeing so many ads for them that it seemed “he” had endless pills.

This proverb is absolutely a product of its time, with both Jimmy Carter and Carter’s Little Liver Pills being something that peaked in the American interest in the late ’70s. Today, this proverb would only make sense to other people who had grown up in this era. The fact that RK did not know about Carter’s liver pills makes the use of this proverb even more interesting as RK was a passive bearer of the proverb, accidentally conditioning himself to think that President Carter had a pill problem which had stuck in his subconscious until only a few weeks ago. This conditioning occurs when one interacts with a proverb, and its illusion of collective wisdom can be extremely destructive when taken in the wrong context, but thankfully, RK’s opinions on Jimmy Carter’s drug use aren’t particularly harmful to anyone. Should this proverb have instead made RK think about an entire cultural group, perhaps, even if by accident, it could have led to the perpetuation of harmful biases against certain people, especially as the proverb came from RK’s father, someone who’s opinion RK values. While this mix-up was humorous in this context, it also shows how powerful folk speech can be in influencing one’s core beliefs when they are at a young age.

There’s No Crying in Baseball

Nationality: American
Occupation: Real Estate Investment and Development
Residence: Rancho Santa Fe, California
Language: English

Informant: “It comes from the movie A League of Their Own, the professional girl’s baseball league, created in World War 2 because the major and minor leaguers went off to fight in the war. Starring Tom Hank as the manager, one of the girls on the team was crying, and he said ‘there’s no crying in baseball.’ ‘Playing baseball is hard. It’s the hard that makes it great. If it was easy, everyone would do it.’ She was crying because he yelled at her. That’s kind of the background. I used it because you guys were younger, and you’d get upset about something, so I’d say there’s no crying in baseball. What I meant by that is: ‘This isn’t worth being upset about. It’s over; its ok; you learn from your mistake, and life goes on.”

Context: I asked my father about this line that he used to say a lot when I was younger. He was coaching me at the time, and as young kids do, I would cry sometimes if I got hurt. As such, he would tell me this to calm me down and keep me in a positive mindset. As he mentioned, it is from a movie about an all-women baseball league, and the line is pretty funny in context, especially when you consider how baseball is a very traditional and male-dominated sport. Tom Hanks chews out a woman on his team who had just made an error, and she starts crying, to which he responds: “Are you crying? There’s no crying in baseball.” Ever since my dad first said that I have repeated the line without knowing where it came from, and I have also heard other coaches or older men who like baseball repeat this saying.

Analysis: I think this line reflects a great deal about both the culture and attitudes surrounding baseball. Baseball has a very traditional culture, and fans of the sport tend to place a lot of value on appearances. Whether that be displaying sportsmanship or refraining from celebrating too hard on a good hit, most of this culture revolves around traditionally masculine ideas like not displaying too much emotion. I believe this is the core reason behind my father’s adoption of the saying. He found it funny, but he also wanted to instill the values of baseball that he found important. You don’t talk trash, you don’t disrespect the umpire, and you definitely don’t cry. Additionally, he wanted me to be good at the game and mentally resilient. This phrase, in my dad’s mind, served as an attempt to reframe baseball, or whatever task is at hand, as a fun challenge. However, this use of the phrase differs from what it meant in the movie, where it was less light-hearted, in my opinion.