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Del dicho al hecho hay mucho trecho

Nationality: American, Mexican (dual)
Age: 45
Occupation: Stay at home parent
Residence: Concord, CA
Language: Spanish

This is actually a common saying from where my mom is from in Mexico (Mexico City), but it’s a very regional saying. She claims my father had no idea about it before he met her. It translates to “from words to actions, there’s a big gap.” Essentially saying that theres a big difference between what people say and what people do. She’s always told me this as a kid and I’ve been around my hispanic community and have never heard anyone else refer to it either. They understand because of language, but it’s likely their first time hearing it.

I’ve already mentioned it, but it’s a regional saying to those in Mexico City, I find that Mexico in general is really diverse in regional folklore. She has a gesture that’s specific to a region she lived in for a time. Although she doesn’t do it because it’s the equivalent of the middle finger. I have been around Mexico various times, and would say I’m equally if not more well-traveled in Mexico than the United States, and I’ve been to 23 United States. This proverb that she says seems to reflect the skepticism towards empty promises. Mexico City is an enormous city, and many people live day-to-day because of the uncertainty of tomorrow. I think this creates uncertainty between people as well as they are unsure if people can follow through on their promises.

I’ll burn that bridge when I get to it – Proverb

Nationality: American
Age: 19
Occupation: Student
Residence: Los Angeles
Language: English

Text: I’ll burn that bridge when I get to it

Context: “I’ve always used this instead of ‘I’ll cross that bridge when I get to it.’ The original proverb feels way too optimistic. I’m not necessarily trying to be pessimistic, but burning the bridge is more accurate. When I know there’s something challenging coming up, I just want to get through it.”

Analysis: This isn’t the first time I’ve heard of someone twisting a traditional proverb into something original. Some people simply don’t resonate with the borderline toxic positivity that many proverbs carry, and as a result, they come up with a variation that they feel applies to them better. Some issues aren’t a bridge to cross. Sometimes, they need to burn. And while this spin on a very well known proverb might come across as too negative, I appreciate a more realistic take.

Indian Proverb

AGE: 20

Date_of_performance: February 15, 2025

Language: English

Nationality: Indian

Occupation: Student

Primary Language: English

Residence: New York

Context: “During floods, large trees that stand erect are often washed away, while short grass remains in its place because of its flexibility. Similarly, in the floods of life, the inflexible and egotistical are swept away, while the flexible and humble endure.” A came across this proverb at a temple, and his family has taught him similar things about adapting and being humble. He interprets it as you have to have the flexibility and kindness to be able to handle what life throws at you.

I: Do you have a favorite proverb or saying?

A: Yeah, one that really stuck with me is: “During floods, large trees that stand erect are often washed away, while short grass remains in its place because of its flexibility. Similarly, in the floods of life, the inflexible and egotistical are swept away, while the flexible and humble endure.”

I: That’s interesting, where did you first see it and what does it mean?

A: I first saw it when I visited a Hindu Temple in New Jersey. It means having resiliency and humility. You need to always have an open mind and be able to adapt to what life throws your way. Never be so rigid and go with the flow.

I: Have you ever seen an example of this in real life?

A: Yeah, when searching for finance internships, usually those who are cocky or arrogant end up being the ones who can’t find one or have problems in their careers later on. 

Analysis:

I really like this proverb, and it makes sense to me. I’ve always wanted to be a humble and kind person and this proverb shows a practical reason for doing so. Not to say that I want to have these qualities just because of what I can get in return, but it shows me there are real-life benefits to being humble and quick to adapt. This ties into another phrase I’ve heard, which is “Being kind is free”. I want to remain and adaptable and humble person in the future because of the positive outlying effects it brings me and those around me.

“If dust piles up it becomes a mountain”

AGE: 49

Date_of_performance: February 21, 2025

Language: Japanese

Nationality: Japanese

Occupation: Banker

Primary Language: Japanese

Residence: New York

Context: “If dust piles up it becomes a mountain”. E heard this phrase growing up in Japan from her parents and she incorporates it into her day-to-day life today. She interprets it as small things add up to a great result. She gave me the example of happiness, and how being thankful for small things everyday leads to overall happiness in one’s life

Text: 

Interviewer is I. Subject is Eri, E.

I: So what kind of Japanese proverbs do you know of or like?

E: There’s a lot of them I like but one of my favorites is the phrase, “if dust piles up it becomes a mountain”.

I: What does that mean?

E: It means that doing small things will add up to a great result. If you study a language for an hour a day, eventually you will be able to understand a lot of it.

I: I see, so something as small as dust can become a mountain if there is a lot of it. How do you relate this proverb in your day-to-day life?

E: I use it for happiness. I think about small things I’m thankful for everyday. And that makes me very happy overall, it adds to my happiness.

Analysis:

Thinking deeper about this, I think this proverb fits in with Japanese culture. Japanese people have always been hard-working, although there is a sense that they work themselves a little too much. The idea of doing something little by little to make a profound change could be incorporated into how Japanese people view work. Personally, I want to apply this to life with going to the gym. Although results are not immediate, being disciplined and going to the gym often can result in great benefits.

“Meet Me at the Airport, We’re Going to Tahiti”

Nationality: American
Age: 63
Occupation: Retired

Informant Information:

Age: 63

Date of Performance: 2/18/2025

Language: English

Nationality: American

Occupation: Retired

Primary Language: English

Residence: Alameda, California

Text:

“Meet me at the airport, we’re going to Tahiti.”

Context:

The informant, a native of Berkeley, California, has faced significant family hardships, including her mother’s sudden health crisis, her son’s chronic illness, and her brother’s child being diagnosed with autism. During particularly stressful moments, she and her siblings would jokingly text each other, saying, “Meet you at the airport, let’s go to Tahiti” or “I’m going to Tahiti right now, come join me.” This became their way of signaling that they had reached an emotional breaking point and needed a mental escape.

Analysis:

The metaphorical idea of escaping to Tahiti, an idyllic vacation destination, served as a form of humorous escapism for the informant and her family. By inviting each other to “meet at the airport” and “go to Tahiti,” they created a shared symbolic refuge—a way to momentarily detach from their struggles without actually leaving.

Tahiti, often associated with paradise and relaxation, represented the fantasy of escaping life’s burdens and finding peace. By extending this imaginary invitation, the informant and her siblings not only acknowledged their shared hardships but also reinforced their emotional support for one another. This expression worked simultaneously as a joke and coping mechanism that allowed them to communicate distress, offer solidarity, and maintain their bond through humor, despite adversity.