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Star light, star bright….- Verbal Folklore/Ritual

Text: “Star light, star bright, first star I see tonight, I wish I may, I wish I might, have this wish, I wish tonight”

Informant: “So mine was about how to make a wish by wishing on the first star. You’d say, ‘Star light, star bright, first star I see tonight, I wish I may, I wish I might, have this wish I wish tonight,’ and then you’d say the wish in your head. You couldn’t tell anyone what it was or it wouldn’t come true. I honestly don’t know how I learned it. It might have been from preschool or from my mom, but I remember doing it when I was really young. Whenever I saw a star, I’d say the little chant or rhyme out loud and then make the wish.”

Interviewer: “Would you go out of your way to do this, or was it just whenever you happened to see a star?”

Informant: “It was usually just whenever I saw a star, and it had to be the first star I saw that night. Then I’d make the wish. But if I had a really important wish, I might try to look for a star. Usually though I wouldn’t remember to do that, so it was mostly just if I happened to see one. I’d think, ‘Oh, the first star I see tonight,’ and then say the rhyme.”

Interviewer: “Were you alone when you did this?”

Informant: “No. I vividly remember one time I was at a grocery store with my mom and we were walking in. I saw a star and said the rhyme right there. That’s the one time I clearly remember doing it. Maybe you were supposed to do it alone, but I never really did. My mom mostly looked at me like I was crazy when I did it, like ‘What are you doing?’ But I think I ended up teaching it to my little sister.”

Context:

The informant remembers learning this wishing rhyme when they were very young, possibly from preschool or from their mother. They recalled using the rhyme during childhood whenever they happened to see the first star at night and later teaching it to their younger sister.

Analysis:

The rhyme reflects a common cultural belief that wishes can be influenced by specific actions or conditions. The requirement to see the first star, speak the rhyme, and keep the wish secret creates a small ritual that gives structure to the act of wishing. For children especially, these steps make the wish feel more meaningful and possible, providing a sense of hope and imagination. The informant later teaching the rhyme to their younger sister demonstrates how these traditions are passed through families, showing how folklore helps preserve small moments of childhood belief and wonder across generations.

年年有鱼 or nián nián yǒu yu

TEXT: “nián nián yǒu yu” / “年年有鱼”

CONTEXT:

Informant- “This is like a very beloved tradition called nián nián yǒu yu in China during Chinese New Year. So literally it means “may there be fish every year”, but the magic is in the sound of the word. In Chinese, the word for fish is “yu” and it sounds exactly like another word, “yǒu” which means abundance or having extra leftover. So when Chinese families eat fish during the Chinese New Year dinner, they are not just eating a dish, they are making a wish. It’s like saying, “oh, may this year bring us more than enough, always enough food, enough money, enough luck, enough love, and enough happiness to carry into the next year.” And the fish is usually served as whole with the head and tail, because a complete fish represents wholeness and a good opening and a good beginning and ending. So in some families, people do not finish the entire fish on New Year’s Eve. They intentionally leave a little bit because this is like having leftovers and abundance symbolizes that the family will have abundance left over for the coming year. So the fish on the table is not only food, it is a symbol of hope. And it tells a like, simple but beautiful Chinese New Year wish. “May we always have more than we need.”

ANALYSIS:

This Chinese New Year tradition is a symbolic way of setting forth positive intentions for the coming year in hopes of prosperity. This belief that stems from the play on words is reminiscent of the tradition of blowing out birthday candles in hopes for the coming year to be full of happiness and good luck. Beliefs such as this one are cultural and passed down in familial settings across generations.

Wishing on an Eyelash (Top or Bottom Fingers)

Age: 38
Hometown: Menlo Park, CA
Location: N/A

Context:
I learned this from my mom. She learned it as a child but doesn’t remember exactly where she got it from. She does remember that is was a common thing among her peers and they would all do it to each other.

Content:
Interviewer: “What do you do when you find an eyelash?”

Interviewee: “So you have to take the eyelash and you put it between your pointer finger and your thumb and hold it together and then you lift up your pointer finger and your thumb in whichever side the eyelashes on well.

Interviewer: “Why do you do that?”

Interviewee: “You’re supposed to guess which side first before you do that, and then if it lands on the side where you guess top or bottom then your wish will come true, and then you can blow it to make the wish.”

Analysis:
This is act is a form of everyday folklore and superstition, where a small ritual gives meaning to a random event. It has spread through peer groups, especially children, and has been passed down through generations like it has in my family. This also feels like something kids do together, which makes it more about bonding and sharing than just the wish itself. Overall, it shows how people take something simple and turn it into a meaningful moment, even if they don’ fully believe it will work.


“Twisted Necklace”

Context: While waiting for a pizza order, a co-worker of mine shared a good-luck ritual.

Text:

As we waited for our pizza, my coworker noticed my necklace was twisted. The pendant was behind my neck, and the clasp was at the front. She asked if she could fix it, and I said yes. After she untwisted it, she said, “Now you have to make a wish.” I was a bit confused because I’d never heard of the practice before. She explained that in her family, after they fix their jewelry they make a wish for good luck.

Analysis:

Like blowing an eyelash, I’ve heard of some people who practice luck rituals. It was interesting to hear about a ritual involving jewelry, which, in a way, made a lot of sense. Jewelry pieces are very personal items, and they reflect a lot about a person. Some of us even ritualize wearing the same jewelry every day, highlighting its importance. These pieces are sometimes seen as “good-luck” charms or handed down from generations prior. This reminds me of Fraser’s theory regarding contagious sympathetic magic. Touching these “magical” items is sometimes believed to have a positive impact on people’s lives.

Chicken Wishbone Tradition

Age: 22

Text
“So back when I was probably like eight to probably 12, my dad and I used to do, I know this is like a pretty common one, like pulling the bones apart on a wishbone on like, a chicken. So we used to, like, the first day we like, pick up food from Costco, we’d get a rotisserie chicken. We’d bring it home and we’d dress it whatever. We’d have the wishbone and the belief was we’d each hold an end of the wishbone. I don’t know how familiar you are, but it’s got like two ends. And we’d pull it apart and whoever got like the chunk at the end gets their wish granted. So you’d think of a wish, you pull it apart, and then you get your wish, or you don’t get it. There are no like, bad effects for like, not getting your wish. It’s not like the opposite would happen or like something bad would happen. But you really wanted to get that chunk at the end. My dad used to like hold it a certain way that he’d get it every single time. He’d hack it. I don’t know what he’d do, bro. But, yeah, I like, got my wish, like, twice. So, yeah.”

Context
RR participated in this tradition with his dad every time his family ate a whole chicken, and it was always he and his dad that did it. They would both think of a wish and pull on each side of a wishbone and the person coming away with the bigger piece would have their wish granted. RR notes that he has no idea how, but somehow his dad would almost always have the bigger side. He doesn’t mention if any of his wishes were granted.

Analysis
This is an example of a widely known piece of folklore that was passed down within a family. It’s a small ritual that happened between RR and his dad every time they ate a whole chicken, and shows how folklore can tie people together and build relationships through certain rituals and traditions. It’s pretty powerful, and speaks to the value of folklore, that even though RR would always lose, he still continued to participate because of the family meaning behind the ritual rather than the actual result of getting a wish granted. The wishbone tradition is an example of a magic superstition, as participants believe that getting the larger piece of the wishbone will result in a granted wish.