Category Archives: Life cycle

Birthday Cake Tradition

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“In my family, we take birthdays seriously. One of the birthday traditions we never break, is that the birthday person must always take the first slice of cake. If they don’t, they will get bad luck. I don’t believe this is just a tradition within my own family however we never break it. When I overhear the birthday person say “I dont want cake”, I always make sure to explain to them that they have to take the first bite. I really don’t know how much I believe in that rule, but it is easier to take a bite of the first slice, than deal with the stress that I will get bad luck”

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My informant grew up in Miami in a family that takes birthdays very seriously. One unbreakable rule at every birthday is that the person celebrating has to take the first slice of cake, if they don’t, it’s bad luck. She doesn’t think the tradition is unique to her family, and she enforces it herself, stepping in to remind the birthday person of the rule whenever they try to pass on cake.

Analysis

The rule that her family practices is simple, but the logic behind it is a great representation of folk belief: the person being celebrated has to actively participate in their own celebration. The cake is symbolically for the birthday person, and refusing the first piece is a way of refusing the celebration itself, which folk belief treats as inviting bad luck for the year ahead. The informant’s role as enforcer is also very important to the passing of traditions. She doesn’t just follow the rule herself, she makes sure other people follow it too, even when they’re not part of her family. That kind of active transmission is how folk belief spreads beyond its original household. Additionally, the fact that she was unsure about whether it’s specifically her family’s tradition or a more widespread one is also typical of folklore because many people assume their family customs are universal until they encounter someone who doesn’t share them.

The Woman with the Braid

Age: 19

Background: As we sat in the middle of McDonald’s on Figueroa, I turned to my friend and asked if she had any ghost stories of her own. She let me know she had multiple, so I asked for the one she deemed most interesting, which led to this conversation.

ES: One night I’m walking down the hall of my house, and I pointed out to the end of the hall and asked my mom, “Who’s that?”

And my mom asked, “What are you talking about?”

And I was like “Who is the lady at the end of the hall?”

And my mom was like, “There’s nobody there,” and asked, “Describe her to me.”

And I said, “It’s a lady with long gray hair and a braid, and she’s saying hi to me.” And obviously, my mom freaked out because there was nobody there. She tried to figure out who it could’ve possibly been and then the next morning my dad got a phone call that his grandma had passed away in her sleep, and she always wore her hair down but when she slept, she put her hair in a braid. And so then my mom realized that was her. Coming to visit us…

Interviewer: Before she passed away?

ES: No, after she passed away.

Interviewer: But you guys weren’t aware that she had passed away when she visited?

ES: No, we didn’t know.

Interviewer: That’s interesting. Do you think that strengthened your belief or was your belief already there? Like how did that affect your belief?

ES: I was too young, but I think hearing that story as I grew up and hearing my mom say [I”ve] always had a strong connection to [my] loved ones who have passed has definitely strengthened my belief and understanding of…

Interviewer: Ghosts? Spirits?

ES: Yeah.

My thoughts: I’m still not convinced that ghosts are real; however, there didn’t seem to be a reasonable explanation for what she saw other than her great-grandma. Also, the fact that she received this information the day after, and the detail of the braid, do grant this story some credibility.

Breaking a coconut for new beginnings- Superstition

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Informant: “If you get a new car or you’re starting something new, you’re supposed to crack a coconut in front of it. For example, when my brother opened a new office he broke a coconut in front of the building. The shell is supposed to represent your ego and past karma, and the white part inside represents purity and your inner self, so then breaking the coconut represents breaking the ego and starting fresh. It’s symbolic, like a sacrifice. In India the coconut is also known as God’s fruit.”

Interviewer: “When was the first time you saw this done?”
Informant: “The first time was when we got a new car when I was seven or eight. My dad broke a coconut in front of the car. After that we did it for every car we’ve gotten.”

Interviewer: “Is this common where you’re from?”
Informant: “Yes, everyone I know back home in India does it. It’s very common. Even people who move abroad still do it usually when buying something important or starting something new, like a car, a business, or another new beginning.”

Context:

The informant is from India and first witnessed the ritual when their father broke a coconut in front of their family’s new car when the informant was about seven or eight years old. Since then, the informant’s family has repeated the practice whenever they purchase a new car. The informant explained that the ritual is widely practiced in India and is still performed by many people who move abroad, especially when starting something significant like a business or purchasing a vehicle.

Analysis:

This example reflects a superstitious ritual connected to ideas of luck, protection, and new beginnings. The act of breaking the coconut is believed to symbolically remove obstacles or negative karma before starting something important. Like many superstitions, the practice is performed at specific moments of transition, such as purchasing a car or opening a business.

While the specific practice described here involves breaking a coconut in India, many cultures have similar rituals that serve the same symbolic purpose of blessing a new beginning. For example, ships are often christened by breaking a bottle of champagne on the hull before their first voyage, and in Chinese traditions there are various house-blessing practices, such as boiling water when moving into a new home. The specific actions vary across cultures, but the underlying idea remain the same. Taking a functionalist lens, we can interpret these moments as uncertain and carrying a lot of anxiety and tension, so ritual actions help people feel that they are beginning a new venture with good fortune/protection.

Double Happiness Red Paper- Chinese Wedding Tradition

Age: 54

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Informant: “When people get married, friends and relatives help prepare for the wedding. They cut out the double happiness character, ‘双喜 (shuāngxǐ),’ using scissors. It means double happiness. They cut the character out of red paper, it has to be red paper. The character is 喜 (xǐ) for happiness, and the wedding version combines two of them to make double happiness. People only do this for weddings, they make both small and big ones and place them everywhere in the house of the bride and the groom, like entry doors, windows, gates, the bed board, and furniture.”

Context:

The informant is from China and and explained that this practice of cutting the 双喜 out of red paper is widely performed in China and considered a cultural tradition and blessing associated specifically with marriage. The informant also shared that they personally participated in this custom when they got married and when their friends and family married.

Analysis:

Wedding decorations like the double happiness character (双喜) are a form of customary folklore tied to an important life transition. Weddings mark the beginning of a new stage of life, and symbolic objects are often used to express hopes for the couple’s future. The repetition of the character for happiness represents the union of two people and the wish for joy and prosperity in their marriage.

The decoration also has elements of material folklore, since the character is physically created by cutting it out of red paper. In modern times, people tend to buy the paper pre-cut, but there are still people who cut it by hand. The process of preparing and displaying these decorations is often done collectively by family members and friends, which reinforces the communal nature of wedding celebrations and an overall community emphasis in China. Placing the symbol throughout the home not only signals to others that a wedding is taking place, but also symbolically invites happiness and good fortune into the new household.

The Ghost story of Catalina Island

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“While on my CIMI trip to Catalina with my 7th grade class, one of our chaperons who also was our economics teacher gave us the option to hear a ghost story late at night. Me and my boys, who I was rooming with, were all confident that we wouldn’t be scared so we went. When he started telling the story, I was spooked when he told us that the burned down house on the hill we say today was haunted. Several of my friends were too scared to sleep alone, so eight of us piled into a 4 person room. One of my friends was the only one who thought our reactions were funny and felt we were dumb to believe the story. The rest of us slept like sardines on the floor of the dorm and were scared the rest of the trip. When I would open my eyes at night I sometimes thought I would see red hair in the window, but to this day I do not know if I was hallucinating or not.”

Context

“Apparently, it was the home of a red headed girl who got lost one day in the canyon and never came back. After she died, he claimed that she came back to haunt the island and would show up at night to terrify kids. I remember him saying she comes and grabs your feet if they are not covered by a blanket and takes you away. After hearing this story, we were all petrified and I remember how our fear brought us all together. This story is known by many Catalina natives, especially the ones who work near or at CIMI.”

Analysis

This ghost story is a good example of a legend because it shows how they could be true but there is no concrete facts to prove it. Many forms of folklore are similar to legends because they are often informal and lack historical evidence that is proven. Like this ghost story, legends and other forms of folklore are created through belief, and when there is belief there are usually contradictions. However, when legends are performed and passed on, they are shared with confidence as if they are proven to be true. Like his friend who did not believe the story, there are many who follow and live by legends such as religion, and others who strongly refute it. Legends are important as folklore because they create uncertainty and debates, prioritizing belief over facts. The location and time of day this story was told also shows how environment contributes to folklore. Since it was a dark night and the story took place where they were, their fear was heightened and they were able to bond on shared trauma, showing how legends mysterious aspects create connection.