Category Archives: Life cycle

The Origin of Ganesh

Nationality: American
Age: 32
Occupation: Unemployed
Residence: San Francisco, CA
Language: English

Text:

“As a child, my mother taught me that Ganesh has the head of an elephant because of a story involving his parents, Shiva and Parvathi. One day, when Ganesh was guarding the bath area to protect his mother, Parvathi, he saw Lord Shiva approaching and tried to stop him. Not recognizing Ganesh, Shiva became angry and chopped off his head. When Parvathi saw what had happened, she begged Shiva to save their son. To bring Ganesh back to life, Shiva said the only way was to replace his head with that of the first living creature he came across, which in this case was an elephant. And that is why Ganesh has the head of an elephant.”

Context:

This myth was shared by the informant, P, during a conversation about Hindu stories she heard during childhood. P first heard this myth from her mother, who used it to explain the origin of Ganesh and his unique image. To P, this myth is more than just a story; it is an explanation of Ganesh’s divine role as a protector.

Analysis:

This is a myth because it explains the origins of a sacred figure, Ganesh, using symbolic storytelling to express deep religious beliefs. The story involves gods, supernatural events, and moral values like sacrifice and protection. The elephant head serves both a literal and symbolic purpose, representing wisdom and strength. This myth helps explain not only Ganesh’s physical form but also his cultural role as the remover of obstacles and protector of beginnings.

The 5th Floor McDonalds

Nationality: American
Age: 19
Occupation: College Student
Residence: Morris Plains, NJ, USA
Language: English

It was a piece of school lore that was told to them by the upperclassman and that he later passed on to the younger classmen. They use it as an initiation process for high school. You are a real member of the high school if you know this joke.  

“My brother went to high school at [M], and always told us there were plenty of pranks people would play on my sisters and I. When I got there I was told there was a secret McDonalds on the 5th floor. It was funny because it was really hard to find the 4th floor so the idea that there might be a secret 5th floor felt pretty realistic. I remember a senior walking into gym class with McDonalds and telling the freshman he didn’t even leave the building. A lot of kids were really excited. I eventually told it to the freshman at the club fair.”

While it’s not uncommon for seniors to play pranks on freshmen, I think this particular prank developed because of the school structure. Upon asking more questions I found that the over 10 stairwells in the building all lead to different levels and sometimes skipped floors. This made it difficult for students to find the right floor when they first came to the school. Therefore the idea that a secret staircase to the 5th floor was pretty believable. It was a fun initiation for the freshman and a good way to explore the school. 

The Legend of the Sex Couch

Nationality: American
Age: 19
Occupation: College Student
Residence: Morris Plains, NJ, USA

The interviewee was a member of the local high school’s theater program and valued the legend as something to pass on, joke about, and even create a taboo of not touching the couch. 

“Ok so when I first joined theater there was like a faint mention of something called the sex couch. But there was like multiple couches so I didn’t really know which one it was. We used a green couch for [her 2nd show] and someone made a comment that was like “that’s the sex couch” but I knew we had just gotten that one from dumpster diving but later someone told me that it was the pink couch that was kept above the lighting aisle which was also used in [the same show] so I definitely just misunderstood whoever told me which one was which. It seemed like most people in the grades above me knew what the sex couch was and it was just like my first introduction to it was [this show]. People would talk about the couch in like passing and we had basically made jokes about it. [J], the head of lighting, even said that he himself had had sex on the couch, although I never knew if that was actually true or just him adding to the lore. One time during I think [her 5th show] [R] brought in a black light and we had like a big crowd gather to see if there was actually anything on the couch, and oh boy yeah there was on both sides of the cushions too. I think the sex couch is something that most people know about in the program and I definitely talked about it to new people and like told them what it was”

Though it may seem childish and silly, the idea of people having sex is a very grown-up idea for a freshman in high school. This legend was used to embarrass kids but also make them feel like a member of the club. An inside joke to share and whisper behind the director’s back. Upon further fieldwork, I discovered that many high school theaters have such couches. Besides passing it down as a story it is also considered an item of taboo or bad luck if you were the person in charge of retrieving or moving the sex couch. Nothing would happen from touching it but the humour and picking fun is relentless anyway. I believe it is important to have these jokes and these histories because it creates a glue that connects past and present as well as all the members to each other no matter where they are in their lives.

Pop Rocks and Soda

Nationality: American
Age: 52
Occupation: clerical staff
Language: English

Text: So this kid from the cereal commercial. Well supposedly when he became a teenager, he ate Pop Rocks and soda and died. It was supposed to be a thing that if you ate Pop Rocks and soda at the same time, they will cause a chemical reaction in your stomach and you will die. So of course kids wanted to do it.” 

Context:

“There was a kid on a cereal commercial for LIFE cereal, his name was Mikey. Originally, it was like they got him to eat the cereal and were like, “Oh he won’t eat it, he hates everything.” And then he eats the cereal and they say “hey, Mikey, you like it!”

Analysis:

This specific variation of the “A+B eaten together will make your stomach explode” legend uses Pop Rocks and soda, both sugary and therefore likely liable to make someone’s stomach upset if eaten in excess. That isn’t even mentioning the carbonation and release of gasses that may disrupt the stomach biome. It’s incredibly likely that the story was originated by a concerned parent, but it is just as likely to have originated from other kids and altered through word of mouth. Whatever the origin, the focus for the informant seems to be on the repetition. 

The context is based around who the person was and how he was known from a commercial. His visibility, then, is what granted this legend more credibility and status than if it had happened to some random person. The object of legend matters immensely. Then, other kids wanting to try the combination as well perpetuates the legend. By knowing people want to or do try this, the legend can become a theory for an absence or an expectation from even a minor stomachache. 

Las Vegas Legend

Nationality: American
Age: 52
Occupation: Clerical staff
Language: English

Text:

This is about the guy who went to Vegas and he went to a club and was drinking and just partying and picked up some girl and was planning to leave the club with her. But when he woke up, well, the last thing he remembered was the club and then when he woke up, he was in a hotel in the bathtub with ice around him. And blood. And on the mirror of the bathroom, there was a note and it basically said ‘call 911’. Come to find out, the guy had gotten drugged and someone stole his kidney. 

Context:

Back in the mid 90s when I turned 21, we were going to go ahead and go on a trip to Vegas, my first trip. I went with my sister and my mom. I don’t remember if I went with a friend, too, or who, but anyway. Before we went, my sister and her friend, Jennifer, who were both older than I am, told me this. Well, I found out after the fact, this was a story that was actually going around at the time and pretty much everyone I knew was told this story before they went to Vegas for the first time.”

Analysis:

This legend seems to relate, in a way, to another saying: What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. While that usually is used as a cheeky reference to wild parties and sex, it manifests within this story both as a practical joke and as a warning. The informant describes how she heard this story from her older sister, as many other people going to Vegas for the first time also had. It seems to have been a way to scare them; the older tellers of these legends may have believed less in their validity, but the younger one who doesn’t know what to expect will be more inclined to believe. On the other hand, this serves as a real warning about going to a city with a big club scene. The guy in the legend drank at a bar and was going to go home with a girl but woke up in an unfamiliar place instead. The same thing happens all the time as people try to take advantage of others or spike their drinks. This legend reflects the valid fears about being drugged or hurt when partying, especially in an unfamiliar place on vacation, away from home and family.