Author Archives: Caroline Fedigan

Pass The Present


Text: It’s actually a newer tradition that I actually I really like. On Christmas, and other holidays, my grandma started doing this little game. She prints out these like sheets online, which is like it’s a ‘pass the present game,’ so people get presents. We all sit in a circle, and there’s some prompts that are like ok, pass the present to the youngest in the room. And then you give the random wrapped present to the youngest person in the room. Then she reads out the next one and it’s like give it to the most artistic person, and then you hand it to the person you thik. Give it to the person with the least amount of hair, then give it to that person. Give to the person with the most amount of hair..and it kind of just goes until the sheet ends, and then whoever ends up with the prizes gets to open up the presents. She did it at Christmas and Easter. I think she plans on doing it at Thanksgiving too cause it was really fun and we all enjoyed it.

Context: AL described this tradition when asked about holiday traditions. AL’s grandma would print out a sheet of paper with prompts. These prompts would have examples of people in the room, such as give prize to the youngest on the room, to the most artistic person, and to the one with the most/least amount of hair. Whoever read out the prompt would pick their person and give them a small prize from the grandma, and whoever had the most amount of prizes at the end could open the big present.

Analysis: This tradition shows how families can create new rituals that quickly become something everyone looks forward to. The game isn’t tied to culture or religion, but it still brings people together by making gift-giving more interactive and fun. The prompts encourage people to look at each other in a playful way, which can lead to jokes, competition, and laughter, making the moment feel more memorable than just handing out presents normally. Since the grandma leads the game and plans to use it for multiple holidays, it also shows how one person can shape and spread a tradition within a family. Also how one tradition can be translated to multiple holidays. It highlights how traditions don’t have to be old to be meaningful, they just need to create a shared experience that people enjoy and want to continue.

Sparkling Cider


Text: “A family traditional of mine is that the sparkling apple cider to me is such a special thing because I used to only drink it during like holidays and stuff and like family get-togethers. I would drink it at Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year’s, and Easter. Basically anytime that there was like a holiday dinner. I didn’t drink sparkling apple cider unless it’s a holiday or something. Even still today I only have it at special occasions, but now I’m an adult I can choose when is special. Like my friends and I we did a little gingerbread house night and I brought it. I brought a bottle just cause I was like this is a special event to me, so I’m gonna bring this. But my grandma used to get us these little glasses that we would use for kids so that we had our own fancy glass instead of giving us a wine glass. My dad would do the same thing for us at New Years, so when the ball drops and it starts the new year we all drink the champagne, even though it’s sparkling cider, but it made us feel like we were drinking champagne.”

Context: AL’s parents and grandparents would by them and their sibling sparkling cider for every holiday. It would be in fancy glasses and made the kids feel like they were drinking champaign. Despite being an adult now and being legally able to drink champaign, AL still sees sparkling cider as a fancy drink. They now get it themselves for whatever they deam a special event – whether with family or with friends.

Analysis: This beverage became a tradition that was not just fun, but made kids seem a part of adult culture, such as making them have similar looking drinks on New Years like champagne, and made kids feel included. This tradition became so beloved after being repatead a plethora of holidays for years that it became a huge part into positive and important celebrations that now AL has transported the beverage to have it at multiple fun events that they deem important. Therefore expanding the tradition. This can show that tradition can be expanded from repition and positve beliefs around the topic.

Christmas Saran Wrap Game

Text: “At Christmas, we did a saran wrap game. Where it’s just like you get a pretty big bowl and add presents into the bowl. Once their in the bowl you wrap it in saran wrap in multiple layers. Then you time everyone, and you have to unravel the saran wrap, like really quickly, so that you can get gifts. Which you want to do because you want because you wanna get the big gift in the middle, but then there’s a bunch of other tiny things like candies and stuff around it, and that was always really fun.”

Context: When discussing Christmas traditions with AL, they described a holiday tradition their whole family would participate in. Grabbing a big bowl with an array of presents, some small like little toys and candy, but with the addition of a bigger wrapped present in the center of the bowl. The bowls for each family member were wrapped multiple times in saran wrap. Everyone then is timed to see who can unwrap their bowl the fastest. They are additionally motivated to get to the center of the bowl so they can get to the big present.

Analysis: This tradition shows how families can turn something simple like gift-giving into a game that everyone gets excited about. The saran wrap game adds competition and urgency, since everyone is racing against time to unwrap their bowl and reach the bigger prize in the center. At the same time, the smaller items like candy keep it fun along the way. Because everyone is doing it together and reacting in the moment, it creates a lot of laughter and energy, which makes the experience more memorable than just opening presents one by one. It highlights how adding a playful challenge can make holidays feel more interactive and bring people closer through shared excitement.

Thanksgiving Treasure Hunt

Text: “The Thanksgiving treasure hunt has to be my absolute favorite tradition out of any holiday. My dad did it for me when I was growing up, and now I pass it on to my kids. My sister, however, does not do it for her kids, so I’m glad I can keep the tradition alive that my dad started. Every Thanksgiving, I get silly gifts for everyone. For example, for my husband, when he had a super old falling apart car, I gave him a toy of the mator tow truck from cars, or the falling year gave him a pair of reader glasses after noticing his eyes were getting old. So, silly gifts like that. I would hide them around the house and write poems with clues to lead people to their treasure. After dinner, we would start with the youngest in the room and work our way up to the oldest. They would open the paper in front of them, read the clue, go get their gift, and come back to the table to open it, and then the next person would go. I even include extra people of we have an aunt or cousin over that year rather than our main immediate family. It’s a lot of fun, and I keep the poems from every year.”

Context: This is a generational tradition that brings a new, fun activity for the holiday. It gives people time to digest in the period between dinner and dessert. The gifts are usually fun little jokes to poke fun at and are enjoyed, bringing laughs to the whole crowd. The clues are written in a poem written by the mom who hides all of the gifts around.

Analysis: This tradition shows how one person can take something simple and turn it into a really meaningful family ritual over time. The Thanksgiving treasure hunt isn’t just about giving gifts; it’s about the experience of finding them, especially with the poems and clues that make it feel more personal and creative. The fact that it was passed down from a dad and is now being continued for the next generation shows how traditions can stay alive even if not everyone in the family keeps them going. The silly gifts also make it more fun and less serious, turning it into a moment of laughter and connection rather than just another holiday activity. Starting with the youngest and including whoever is there helps everyone feel involved, which makes it more memorable for the whole group.

Don’t Whistle At Night!

“I’ve always been told not to whistle at night, like ever. My grandma was super serious about it, too. She would hear even the tiniest whistle and immediately tell me to stop. The way she explained it was that whistling at night calls things to you…like spirits or bad energy, basically things you don’t want around. She said nighttime is when everything is quieter, so if you whistle, it travels farther, and whatever’s out there can hear you. I remember asking her what would actually happen, and she didn’t give a super clear answer, just that it could bring bad luck or something following you home. It honestly freaked me out as a kid, so I just never questioned it. I will stop anyone I hear whistling at night because I’m not trying to summon any demons.”

Context: AK is very superstitious; all people from Albania are, from what they told me. Whistling in the dark can summon bad energy or attract evil because sound travels farther when you can’t see as well, according to the belief. Since moving to America, AK has brought this Albanian superstition with them and stops anyone who whistles at night.

Analysis: This story shows how a simple belief can turn into a real habit just from growing up with it. Even now, AK reacts to it automatically, which shows how these kinds of superstitions can stay with you without needing proof. Bringing it from Albania to the U.S. also shows how cultural traditions can travel and continue in new places. This is a great example to show how superstitions spread throughout the world. AK heard it in Albania, and then spread it to their friends in the U.S. until they believed it too, and those friends could spread it on, etc.