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Pass The Present


Text: It’s actually a newer tradition that I actually I really like. On Christmas, and other holidays, my grandma started doing this little game. She prints out these like sheets online, which is like it’s a ‘pass the present game,’ so people get presents. We all sit in a circle, and there’s some prompts that are like ok, pass the present to the youngest in the room. And then you give the random wrapped present to the youngest person in the room. Then she reads out the next one and it’s like give it to the most artistic person, and then you hand it to the person you thik. Give it to the person with the least amount of hair, then give it to that person. Give to the person with the most amount of hair..and it kind of just goes until the sheet ends, and then whoever ends up with the prizes gets to open up the presents. She did it at Christmas and Easter. I think she plans on doing it at Thanksgiving too cause it was really fun and we all enjoyed it.

Context: AL described this tradition when asked about holiday traditions. AL’s grandma would print out a sheet of paper with prompts. These prompts would have examples of people in the room, such as give prize to the youngest on the room, to the most artistic person, and to the one with the most/least amount of hair. Whoever read out the prompt would pick their person and give them a small prize from the grandma, and whoever had the most amount of prizes at the end could open the big present.

Analysis: This tradition shows how families can create new rituals that quickly become something everyone looks forward to. The game isn’t tied to culture or religion, but it still brings people together by making gift-giving more interactive and fun. The prompts encourage people to look at each other in a playful way, which can lead to jokes, competition, and laughter, making the moment feel more memorable than just handing out presents normally. Since the grandma leads the game and plans to use it for multiple holidays, it also shows how one person can shape and spread a tradition within a family. Also how one tradition can be translated to multiple holidays. It highlights how traditions don’t have to be old to be meaningful, they just need to create a shared experience that people enjoy and want to continue.

Christmas Saran Wrap Game

Text: “At Christmas, we did a saran wrap game. Where it’s just like you get a pretty big bowl and add presents into the bowl. Once their in the bowl you wrap it in saran wrap in multiple layers. Then you time everyone, and you have to unravel the saran wrap, like really quickly, so that you can get gifts. Which you want to do because you want because you wanna get the big gift in the middle, but then there’s a bunch of other tiny things like candies and stuff around it, and that was always really fun.”

Context: When discussing Christmas traditions with AL, they described a holiday tradition their whole family would participate in. Grabbing a big bowl with an array of presents, some small like little toys and candy, but with the addition of a bigger wrapped present in the center of the bowl. The bowls for each family member were wrapped multiple times in saran wrap. Everyone then is timed to see who can unwrap their bowl the fastest. They are additionally motivated to get to the center of the bowl so they can get to the big present.

Analysis: This tradition shows how families can turn something simple like gift-giving into a game that everyone gets excited about. The saran wrap game adds competition and urgency, since everyone is racing against time to unwrap their bowl and reach the bigger prize in the center. At the same time, the smaller items like candy keep it fun along the way. Because everyone is doing it together and reacting in the moment, it creates a lot of laughter and energy, which makes the experience more memorable than just opening presents one by one. It highlights how adding a playful challenge can make holidays feel more interactive and bring people closer through shared excitement.

Waiting for the Kings

Nationality: American/Ecuadorian
Age: 18
Occupation: Student
Residence: Washington, DC
Language: English

TEXT: “ In my household, we celebrate both Christmas and Three Kings Day. We don’t open presents on Christmas day, instead, we wait until January 6th. It’s a holiday that my family has celebrated for generations, even if it means I have to wait to open presents. It’s considered a Christian holiday and is celebrated in both of my parents’ home countries, as well as some of my friends from school and people in my community.”

CONTEXT: This tradition was shared by the informant, A.J, during an interview about holiday customs that are somewhat different from mainstream practices. A.J explained that instead of opening presents on December 25th, their family celebrates Three Kings Day on January 6th, following a tradition passed down through generations. This Christian holiday, also known as Día de los 3 Reyes, is celebrated in both of A.J’s parents’ home countries and is also familiar to others in A.J’s community. Even though the wait to open presents is longer, it’s a meaningful tradition that connects them to their cultural and religious roots.

ANALYSIS: This is an example of a culturally specific holiday ritual that reflects both religious belief and heritage. While Christmas is widely celebrated in the U.S. with gift-giving on December 25th, Three Kings Day holds special importance in many Latin American and Spanish-speaking cultures. Celebrating it shows how immigrant families and multicultural households preserve their traditions while living in a different cultural setting. For A.J, the celebration is not just about receiving gifts but a way to honor family history, cultural identity, and share that experience with others in their community.

Advent

Nationality: American
Age: 59
Occupation: Entrepreneur
Residence: Salt Lake City, UT
Performance Date: April 23, 2020
Primary Language: English
  • Context: The following informant, S, is a 59 yr. old man with three kids and a wife. Though the family does not identify as Christian, they celebrate Christmas and participate in the Christian tradition of Advent. This conversation took place when the informant was asked about any specific family traditions surrounding holidays. 
  • Text:

S: “So… for those who don’t know… Advent is a Christian celebration… uh… I think it’s tied in to the Twelve Days of Christmas too when you add it up, but I could be wrong… I don’t know about that… but, basically it’s the entire month of December it starts on December 1st and the day is December 25th… where you actually don’t get an advent… oh and each day you get a little… a little gift… sort of leading up to Christmas. But on Christmas day, you don’t get a little gift for Advent, you get your Christmas gifts. Um… and that… for me at least, started when I was… well as long as I can remember with my mom. And she would have an Advent calendar and we would open that up and… I think she had clues for us, if I’m not mistaken… and we would go find the little gift. It was was usually like a piece of chocolate for each of the three of us, I had two brothers… uh… nothing big… and maybe on the weekend a toy… but you know, nothing massive.

And that carried over when I first had, at least for me, I don’t know about my brothers, I’m sure it did, knowing my mom… but when I had my first kids, I started to get a box in November… from my mom… around Thanksgiving time… with all of the gifts and clues to go with them for the 24 days leading up to Christmas. So all I had to do was put the clues in the Advent calendar and run the process, and all my kids loved it… well of course my mom passes away a few years ago and… a couple years before that, I think actually, I started doing the clues myself and getting the gifts and what not.

Me: “What are the clues like?”

S: “Well, it’s a shame, I don’t remember what they were like as a kid. But what I do now… um… I either do a little sort of rhyming scheme sort of couplet thing… or I do a riddle… or I do something to do with the number of the day… umm or some combination of that stuff. Plays on words all the time ‘cus that’s sort of riddling. As [my kids] have gotten older I’ve tried to make it a little more challenging to figure out what it is and hidden them a little bit more… they used to be in plain sight way more often than they are now.”

Me: “And is it like each kid gets a clue or…?”

S: “One clue for the three [kids]. And [my kids] actually rotate, [they] decided to go youngest to oldest… uh [the youngest] does the first, [the middle] does the second, [the oldest] does the third and then [they] rotate through. Uhh…”

Me: “Reading the clues?”

S: “Reading the clues out loud. And then everybody… well it depends what kind of mood people are in… some days [my kids] decide to sit and not participate and sulk, but most days all three of [my kids] go and look, and of course mom, when she figures out the clue, can’t hold herself back and has to yell out where it is ‘cus she’s so proud of herself for figuring it out.”

  • Analysis: This version of Advent is similar to other versions I have heard of. Mainly, I have heard of pre-made Advent calendars with chocolates or small gifts inside each day. The main difference between this version of Advent and others is the addition of clues and hiding the presents. This type of Advent is more of a game, that includes riddles and rhyme schemes that lead to the hidden presents. This is the Advent I grew up knowing, and until I began to go over to my friends houses around the holidays I was unaware that Advent was not a game in all other households as well.

German Christmas Traditions

Nationality: American, German
Age: 19
Occupation: Student
Residence: Los Angeles, CA
Performance Date: April 14, 2018
Primary Language: English
Language: German, French

The interviewer’s initials are denoted through the initials BD, while the informant’s responses are marked as SH.

SH: It’s a German thing to open presents on the evening of the 24th. Christmas in Germany isn’t the 25th—the 25th is nothing. My family celebrates in the morning of the 25th because my brother and I grew up in here—Christmas is at its peak when you’re young, and my brother and I lived in Michigan, and I feel like it’s more exciting to wake up as a kid and think “There are presents!” as opposed to like, seeing them there the entire evening.

With Germans, it’s the thing where you go to church and then come back, and the presents have magically appeared. But like, if you don’t go to church, like my family, the presents would have have just kinda been… sitting there.

I guess it’s also a family tradition that my father always tries to force us to go to church, and the rest of my family always resists. Didn’t happen this year though, my dad gave in. He didn’t even mention church. He was like: “It’s fine, it’s whatever. We aren’t doing it.” I’ve found that a lot of other families make a big deal out of doing like—a home cooked meal for Christmas eve, or Christmas dinner, you know. We usually go out.

BD: But not to church?

SH: Nope.

 

Analysis: The German tradition to open presents the night before Christmas Day reminds me of a tradition my family celebrates, called Noche Buena—celebrated in Spain, the Philippines, and some places in Latin America, this holiday also puts more of the emphasis on Christmas Eve rather than Christmas Day. I was unaware that Germany had a similar idea, and I find it interesting that my informant’s family changed their traditions upon being in America. Though she did not consider her family to be “very German” to begin with, the ease with which they adopted a more “Americanized” tradition for Christmas is very interesting. It helps to show what their family values as well—the excitement of Christmas for the younger generation is emphasized, and in a way, the children are prioritized.